Thursday, November 15, 2007


Tomorrow my oldest son will turn 26 years old. I remember the day that precious child was born. He was a doll. I couldn’t get over all of his dark hair and huge blue eye. I remember crying when they told me he was a boy because my first thought was what would I do if he ever got drafted? ? Just the thought of the possibility of not knowing where he was or if he was safe caused me pain. Yet, I have had to live with unknowing since 1989.

Bobby was always happy. He never met a stranger. He would walk up to people and introduce himself and ask them if they had gone to church that morning!

He was my climber. I remember after the children got their swing set, I ran into the house for a minute to do something in the kitchen. I looked out the kitchen window and Bobby was sitting on top of the swing set. I went running out the back door totally afraid my precious child was going to fall off it.

I never go a day without thinking of my Christi and Bobby. I pray that God grants me my deepest desire, to see my children again in this life and for our family to be whole and reunited.

Tomorrow, I will weep. I will remember and I will pray. I will pray that God has blessed my son with joy and happiness. I pray that Bobby has found a lovely wife and that he has a child that he loves as much as I have always loved him. I pray that his life is filled with joy and that someday, he remembers his mom and dad and our life together before my parents stole him.


Deborah said...

I'm so very, very sorry. I will pray today with you and grieve with you. My prayer, too, has been that THEY will find YOU.

I love you, precious friend.

§wanny said...

praying for you as you remember sweet memories along with those painful ones.
hugs from me,

Anonymous said...

My heart goes out to you on this day. I will continue to pray for you and your family.

Anonymous said...

You and your family have been in my prayers for many years now. But I will pray extra hard for you this difficult day.

God is always looking over you and I just know in my heart that he will reunite you with Cristi and Bobby. I truly believe in the power of prayer and there's never a day that goes by that I don't think and pray for you.

God bless you always.

Fairlight said...

(((((Debbie)))))I am so sorry.

~T said...


I pray you find them, soon, too.

My momma heart just cannot imagine the pain.

Anonymous said...

Praying for a sweet reunion some day soon.